I’m from CA. My husband of almost 10 years wants to file for divorce. I found out he’s been having an affair with a coworker. We have two children (5 years and 9 months old) born in the US. I am from Europe and not a US citizen. I’ve been a stay at home wife and mother since we got married. I depend on him for everything. But I would want to move back to Europe with my children since I have no reason to be in the US anymore. Is that even a possibility if he agrees to that? He says he hasn’t filed for divorce yet. Is it better to wait for him to file or should I file first?