Michigan. Been “dating” boyfriend for ten and a half years. We have a five year old child together. We live in a house together which he bought. My name is nothing. Financially we are not tied together in anyway. We have no legal custody arrangement other than him being on the birth certificate. Home, where my family is, is two and a half hours away. I have a job so I am not dependent on him, but he provides for our child and I. He is on call for work 24/7 and annually has over a thousand hours of overtime on average. If I wanted to leave, what’s the best steps to take?